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Dear Failure,

Dear Failure,

Dear Failure,
I remember when we first met. You were wearing all black and I was afraid of you. At the time, I was dating Good Enough. I didn’t want to take a risk on you. With Good Enough, I was safe, secure, and comfortable. But Good Enough wasn’t good enough. I needed more. I needed [...]

How To Play A Great Hand

If I tried to date every great woman I met, I would be dating non-stop (and that’s exactly what I was doing for about 2 years). I had 3 great relationships with 3 great women. I meet great women all of the time. My circle of sisters includes the next generation of [...]

Thy Fathers Will Be Done

This poem was inspired by a recent viewing of Ntozake Shange’s For Colored Girls Who Have Considered Suicide When the Rainbow Is Enuf
My game ain’t strongIt’s just her father was weakabandoning my seedis something I can’t conceive
Around this time last yearfatherhood gave me a scarethough my parents divorced when I was onethey were both [...]

Why Are You Getting Divorced?

“Mommy…Daddy…Why are you getting divorced?”
That’s exactly the question kids ask when their parents sit them down on the living room couch as they stand on opposite sides of the room to announce that they’re getting divorced. Divorce usually means that there has been a lot of tension in the parents’ relationship for a while. [...]

8 Words That Might Screw Your Relationship Up…

…If Used Too Early
Cute text message ending with <3 or . Romantic poems recited from the heart. Unexpected cards of appreciation. A (not so) simple “I love you”. Every day people use words to communicate how they feel about each other. There is power in words. They give life to inanimate things. However, being [...]

Love Tug-of-War

Sometimes relationships enter a frustrating phase where both partners’ needs aren’t being met and they engage in a tug-of-war to try to pull the relationship in their favor. It’s a lose-lose situation. If one partner gets their way, then the other is worse off and if they keep pulling equally, then the relationship [...]

How To Overcome Relationship Challenges

In-Capable of Loving
It’s cr-amazing when two spiritual beings recognize each other and vibrate at such a high level when they are together that they combust with love. I’m great + She’s great = Lets get together. Then the honey-moon sets, the sun rises, enlightening the darkest corners, and the truth is revealed.
How could [...]

Experimenting With Love

Making (a) Room for Error

At the beginning of our relationship, Selome and I wrote out our commitment to one another and two of the most important statements were:
1. We acknowledge problems, but focus more on solutions2. We’re always growing and evolving and therefore we’re always learning new things about one another so it is okay [...]

Selome & Jullien’s Commitment

Our Commitmentco-created on January 2008
With Spirit present, we commit to building a strong healthy relationship that is aligned with the will of Spirit.
We are building a relationship that is founded in Spirit which is full of love for nature and the whole world.
We are open and honest with ourselves, one another, and others.
We express our [...]

Dating Hot Guys & Global Warming

Dear Ladies, This Is Why I’m Hot
Dear Ladies,
On behalf of my brothers and myself, I want to apologize if we’ve ever burned you. See…our Father is the Sun, so we’re the sons of the Sun, but many of us are just starting to see the light now. When our soul-ar energy kisses your [...]

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